I have nothing to hide, and sharingRead more , As an ex-Watermark member (8 years), and former CG leader (6 years), I can say unequivocally that I had no problem sharing my financial information with my guys. Does anyone know if the Re:Engage marriage program that Watermark started is worthwhile? Perfectly said Scottie. Who aint very happy. What does all white and all males have to do absolutely anything with regard to this situation? Todd raised 6 kids there and has never take a big salary. It also means sharing your entire financial portfolio and giving away the freedom to make any life decisions apart from the community group. If the leaders deem you unworthy of their support due to pride or sin struggle reasons, they will absolutely unequivocally unabashedly and with zero conscience or compassion, write you off. I think you need to expand on the 4B Spiritual Assessment forms. Elder Mickey Friedrich then urged the church not to try and judge whose version of events is right or wrong. Its not a cult. Hes not the pastor of Watermark. Christian Rocker Posts Stunning Response to Recent Apostasy of Christian Leaders, Chicago Radio Host & a Former Bodyguard Say James MacDonald Asked Them to Arrange Murders, James MacDonald Took Millions from Harvest & Now Demands Broadcast Ministry, Mancow Airs Shocking Comments By James MacDonald: My Response. The Roys Report seeks to foster thoughtful and respectful dialogue. This drum beat often is driven by pride, immature leaders thats been placed to seven themselves. christian leaders who are not straightforward and forthright cannot be healthy. its raw observation on your part you arent being led at all. Also resigned is David Leventhal, an elder and teaching pastor at Watermark, who said he had lost trust in Wagner's leadership. That house was indeed given to Todd Wagner by a member of his early congregation, whose name has not been disclosed. Hello, Scottie. I really enjoyed the music and people. I dont know folks.if you have to go online and record a video to explain how your church is not a cult..this might lead into a Jeff Foxworthy joke! What a bizarre statement. Not every word from a person in a pulpit will always be perfect considering that they are imperfect humans and will admit it. I admit I also used to automatically discredit stories Like this one when I heard them. I would be ok disclosing financial information to my community group. For every story that IRead more . Even through this challenges we can be so judgements these day. Ive been freed for nearly 10 yrs now with cigarettes, alcohol snd sex until wife had been given, People are insecure, confused, listen to gossip,Read more . MacArthur's Grace Community Church of Sun Valley had been involved in months of legal battles with state and local officials . Then check your heart. trying to figure out what happened in an effort to understand if the leadership is healthy or unhealthy. No wonder the under 30 group are saying goodbye to church. John Doe's attorney says his client is now considering a civil lawsuit against the church for slander. Izael who are you to judge someone elses experience? Andrew Bhatia In the beginning of the video, his co-host Adam Tarrow says he went on a Google search and typed in best cults in Dallas and Watermark Church was #1 on the list. Humility, self-awareness of our own sins, repentance, forgiveness and grace for others, these should not be forgotten. The author writes in an article titled Watermark has a leadership problemRead more , Watermark is very transparent about finances. He could have sold the house when it was gifted to him, bought a home more in line with a humble servant leader, and donated the additional proceeds to the church. i dont believe a word he says. Pray snd ask the Lord for that, sure many here are upset, but not many know what has taken place fully, you judgmental hypocrites. Every argument you put forth seems to be based on your subjective opinion based on your speculation, assumption, and judgement.. Watermark encourages people to confess their sins to one another and to admonish faithfully but thats because thats what the Bible tells us to do as believers.. The teaching statement wasnt explained to me in the membership process. I was a member for nearly 14 years, sure bunch of us saw some challenges (as some churches may face) not doubt. like hes a programmed automaton. For much of Wagners speech in the video, Leventhal did not look at Wagner, but stared straight ahead. I am 63. He springs off of that definition into how true followers of Jesus might be considered a Jesus-cult and how is that a bad thing? Its how relationships are formed and accountability is established or thats what they want you to think. Elder-Rule governance removes any hope of independent accountability the elders are originally self-appointed and thereafter elder-appointed. Wow! Watermark Churchs membership process first requires that you sign themembership covenant, which oddly enough, you can do online. While God does allow humans to have free will, His greatest gift to every human is salvation and eternal life, through believing that He sent His son as a sacrifice for our sins. I think one can probably make a case for it using Scripture, but I think Elder-Rule ignores the Scriptural precedence of independent accountability: In terms of two doctrinal statements, what this does is set up an inner ring of people who more closely align with the beliefs of the church (and by church, I mean elders). What do you mean exactly by re-victimization. I wonder what is considered a humble enough lifestyle to please all the rest of us looking in and offering our opinion about something we probably do not know enough about Synopsis of the case is as follows. Fellowship Church. Watermark Church Lawsuit. I think Im getting the hang of this Christianese thing. Positional authority deals with executing responsibilities within an organization, like a general in an army, the president of bank, or the pastor of a church. My challenge to Susan is to give citations for the quotes she gives. I have however heard Todd Wagner say from the pulpit if youre not comfortable giving here thats ok, please give somewhere meaningful to you. Its inappropriate and wrong for a pastor serving the church to live an opulent lifestyle. A pastor or elder does not automatically have spiritual authority due to his position in a church. Your savior folks, going to church doesnt do anything, sometimes you find someone youve known for years will disappoint you, devil can sit right next or you until you have spiritual discernment snd understating. I believe this man would help many, I can say that without shadow of doubt. The house was gifted to him by an extremely successful member of the church. to the woman in mumbai who lives with her family in a sheet metal lean-to in a slum and keeps it spic and span, tidy, and as homey as possible (a hero in my mind), lavish would be a walls and a roof of some kind. One question is We see this is the third article this month youve found worth reading. Its all a show for people to be conned into thinking your being godly. So I canceled my move. Having community is not the issue its how Watermark DEFINES community. Gotcha. He did end the video by defining what HE thought the three marks of a cult were: Im going to address #3, because I did my own Google search of the Dallas County Central Appraisal District and discovered that Todd Wagner lives in a $1.5 million dollar home in a very prestigious area of Dallas. If your Parents were not rich and someone. This is a quality and important post. . There is another Todd Wagner in Dallas he is an entrapenuer Its not Wagner the pastor. Per Todd Wagner I was not the right person or the right fit or whatever he thought. I am not sure what is wrong with elder rule since it is biblical. Yet it turns out they are getting people toRead more , Hi to all, Ive been a member of Watermark for over three years, went through Re:Generation and now co-lead a community group. 1 Pet 2:25 Cant even begin to address this without feeling a sense of disappointment. So you either choose to remain by completing the 4b questionnaire or you are no longer a member, [] a greatexample of unsafe community groups which verge on cults. I dont doubt some unconcionable things happened. A church membership contract errr. In the end, I do think it is a matter of opinion, but I think churches should lean toward transparency. Outsourced: How Watermark Community Church Fails in Caring for Its Members, The Spin Cycle Watermark Community Church Members Unlikely to Ever Know the Truth Behind Resignations, Before You Sign: What You Need to Know About Membership Covenants, Making the Cut What Does It REALLY Take to Become a Member at Watermark Community Church, Dallas Megachurch Pastor Todd Wagner Resigns, Cites Pride as the Reason, https://www.watermark.org/about/governance, OUR COMMUNITY SERIES: Being Lonely in a Group of People | To Love, Honor and Vacuum, Leaders trying to drain members in order to live exorbitant lives. Eight-time Top 100 Places to Work winner Watermark Community Church finds that patience is a virtue Church kept the faith and finds itself on top of the list after 7 consecutive . I have NEVER been asked to, let alone forced, to disclose financial information. I assured those who wanted to speak out with their stories that I would not identify them or use any details in my post that could be used to identify them. 2 doctrinal statements create confusion over authentic belonging. Yes WM hides abusers and minimizes victims. Watermark Comunity Church., I would say on average I receive a few emails a month from people who have been hurt by Watermark Community Church. There is forgiveness for a church also and I hope they are humbled one day so they can grow past some of there root issues. Spiritual authority influences others toward Gods purposes. On the cult thing: LIsten to this longer presentation from a high school ministry event. He had no recollection of ever having seen or met you before because he was so self absorbed. There are also a lot of factors that go into measuring ones wealth, not just the dollar value of ones house; and there are a lot of things that go into measuring ones character, other than how much money one has or the kind of house one lives in. Our daughters went to the same grade school and were on the same soccer team. I cannot imagine that Jesus, given all options, would choose to live among the wealthiest citizens in the most landscaped, luxurious part of the city. Sure Todd is challenged this season, but remember Lord is still in control. Ministries. agreed. And, there was zero pressure from church leadership to do so. Speculation, in this context, equates to gossip, and at its heart, is pride. This is absolutely nothing like a Joel Osteen situation. Or you perfect? When I received the email from *Susan (pseudonym), a former Watermark Church member, she wrote, I am not the only former Watermarker out there who is nervous to speak up about this organization, because I refuse to call them a church.. You are way off base. I keep coming back to this because something just doesnt seem right. THAT is what these people are afraid of. True humility is replaced with a very shallow and false one and so they humble brag about how big a crowd they can draw. Watermark Community Church review: fraud. He didnt even buy the house, it was gifted by a member years ago. The level of absurdity is a bit high here Im a member, not once have I been asked to fork out my money, not once have I been forced to makeRead more . -, You write about the website, No Eden Elsewhere. The only fees were for the materials we used. He began to consider that he was in a cult. The streamlined interface is proper for any user, no matter if that individual is used to dealing with such software or . Would you consider making a tax-deductible donation to help our journalists continue to report the truth and restore the church? He counseled my former fiance and after several meetings with him my fiance broke up the engagement and I was left devastated. I also know of churches that do not use this model that are both healthy and unhealthy. Case Summary. if servant leadership plus Jesus Christ means anything, it logically using financial means to serve others. Came off as legalistic trolling. The guy has an ad that comes on YouTube where he goes through how his org is run. Theyre all using so much jargon that its hard to figure out what any of it actually means. . . Fournet is now listed as an elder emeritus, but Bucheck no longer appears on Watermarks leadership page. search clear. You guys can rip apart our church and Todd all you want, but I know him, and you wont find a man with more of a heart of gold than him. Im saying that outta love and also saying it truly saddens me to see many of you have hardened your hearts. All Campuses . I covered this in my previous post, When Is a Church Member Fair Game, referencing a case of church discipline that Watermark carried out publicly against one of its members. If you got the impression I was disingenuous or was minimizing someones hurt please forgive me. what is lavish? Visit us at 9:30 or 11:00 am CST on Sunday . Several weeks after Leventhals resignation, Wagner separately decided to step down as senior pastor and elder, the churchs statement said.. If the things she claims were stated from the pulpit are true, there should be plenty of documentation. Im Jesus name. To demand that a victim produce evidence is a form of revictimization. I canRead more , I can tell you that I know Todd Wagner personally over 20 years ago. Approach with caution but it is OK to approach. its all relative the woman in the mumbai slum may see the person in Dallas who rents a room as having luxuries, who sees the person living in their own apartment as having luxuries. Thats the problem often times one comes on a hot seat and forgets one day would come that same thing that man have to face. Products. Im not taking about prosperity- She has never seriously considered getting involved with the church beyond that, but has expressed to me that it is quite difficult to actually get connected at Watermark Church because everything is centered around MEMBERSHIP and COMMUNITY GROUPS and you cant have one without the other. If you dont want to be a member at Watermark you dont have to be.Read more , There is a difference between positional authority and spiritual authority. Scripture also says live your neighbor as yourself.folks many of you here have already missed that mark. Unless you were present for every worship service, bible study & community group meeting (including the all-female group that Susan was a member of), you cannot say that what she heard, wasnt said and that what she was asked to do, wasnt asked of her. It is an interesting discussion. business Top 100. He could have thanked his friend for his generosity, and politely declined the gift, suggesting he would love for the proceeds from the resale of the house be donated to a local homeless charity instead. I am so tired of the evangelical industrial complex justifying there greed and sexual abuse and bullying. Why wouldnt the devil try to tempt and discredit a Christian leader whos been respected by so many and positively influenced so many? There are people who are genuinely afraid to withdraw their membership for fear of being put under church discipline, pressure from the community group to conform, and outright harassment. Its upto Him. Church leaders concealed sexual abuse of young children, lawsuits allege. Wow. I went back several times others preached but werent as good holding an audiences attention as Todd Wagner and the full content with historical and life referces and quoting scripture just wasnt there like Todd Wagner.. then they said Watermark Plano was becoming its own church. Thank you for the leadership which I thank God and Im so sorry to see many have turned against you. You may have the last word if you wish. Those who love control and achievement thrive very well there. Spiritual authority has nothing to do with title, education, or rhetorical ability (2 Cor 10-13). In layman's terms, that means all decisions concerning the governance of the church are made by the elders, not by the members. Its a really bad idea in my opinion because its not being totally forthright with members about what the church actually teaches. Our mission is to Love God, Love People, and Serve the World. * For What? This church sounds exhausting and prideful. You live by Elder-Rule, you die by Elder-Rule. What you need to know about Church Membership Covenants., The Aftermath: Stories from Former Watermark Church Members, The Aftermath Part II: Stories from Former Watermark Church Members, Family Ties: How Watermark Community Church is Alienating Families. TWW last left Wagner on leave due to pride in Todd Wagner, the Controversial Pastor of Watermark Church, Steps Away *for a Season. The gift tax is only levied at the end of someones life when they exceed the gift tax exclusion in their lifetime (which is currently set at $11.7 million per individual). Both of these practices are, in my opinion, unhealthy. Todd portrays it all as a divine God told me sort of thing. Problem with a church goers these days is (they are simply judgmental- half the time without any knowledge or discernment. **THEIR shepherds** The elder team is interdependent of each other, creating a system in which it is impossible or highly difficult to discipline or remove any one elder. You are correct. The reason for this is because, as an elder, he will be responsible for teaching others. Messages; +++++++++++++++++. Mickey makes it sound like the decision for Todd to resign was something weve arrived at due to events. and so much mimicked behavior amongst the group. Watermark Community church says it relies on this New Testament passage to justify its policy of disciplining members: "If your brother sins against you, go and show him his fault, just between the two of you. Seems there are some Watermark menbers Read More. If you dont fill out the form you can leave easy if your just quiet. Psychological warfare Is a good name for it. https://www.watermark.org/about/governance. 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